Meeting for real

it would be nice to meet a married woman for real.  I know that most of the websites attract fake people and those who just want to spam you - I get it.  However, there HAS to be horny married women out there that will want to meet up and want to be pleasured.  It's annoying when, after trying to meet up, they show their true colors and turn out to not be real at all but a fake.  Especially in a place like New York City - can it get any bigger than here?  It's not like it's a simple country town!